There was a moment when choice carried weight.
Not because options were limited—but because decisions were expected to end something. You chose a job, a town, a tool, a path. You didn’t keep one foot hovering over the exit forever. You made a call, lived with it, adjusted if needed, and moved on.
Today, everything is open-ended. And because of that, almost nothing is real.
We live in a world where you can sample endlessly without committing to anything. Read just enough to feel informed. Watch just enough to feel engaged. Compare just enough to delay deciding. You can circle, browse, skim, bookmark, save for later, and revisit—without ever crossing the line from consideration into action.
It feels safe.
It feels smart.
It feels responsible.
It isn’t.
What it actually is, is avoidance dressed up as diligence.
Most people don’t realize how much energy they burn keeping their options open. They think commitment is the trap. In reality, suspension is. Living in a permanent state of “almost” drains more clarity than choosing wrong ever did.
A bad decision at least teaches you something.
Endless evaluation teaches you nothing.
You see it everywhere.
People who read ten reviews and never buy.
People who research for months and never start.
People who keep asking “what if” until the moment passes.
People who want certainty before movement, even though certainty only comes after.
They mistake access for progress.
But access is not action.
Information is not direction.
And awareness without decision is just noise.
There’s a quiet cost to this way of living. It shows up as fatigue that sleep doesn’t fix. As irritation without a clear source. As a sense that days are full but nothing is finished. People call it burnout, or overwhelm, or stress.
Often it’s none of those.
It’s the exhaustion of never closing a loop.
When you don’t decide, your mind keeps everything active. Every open possibility stays alive, demanding attention. The brain wasn’t built to hold infinite maybes. It was built to choose, act, and then adjust course based on reality.
That’s how judgment forms.
That’s how confidence grows.
That’s how experience becomes wisdom.
Older generations weren’t braver because they were smarter. They were braver because the culture expected decisions to stick. You didn’t get endless trial periods on life. You picked, you learned, and you carried on.
Today, people wait for the perfect alignment that never arrives.
They want the job that fulfills them without costing time.
The relationship without friction.
The tool that works without effort.
The answer without consequence.
But the price of avoiding cost is stagnation.
Nothing meaningful happens without friction. Not growth. Not skill. Not understanding. Even rest only matters because work exists on the other side of it.
The irony is that the thing people fear most—being wrong—is rarely the thing that harms them. What harms them is staying undecided long enough that someone else decides for them. Time does not wait for clarity. It moves on regardless.
If you don’t choose your direction, circumstances will.
That doesn’t mean you rush.
It means you recognize when you have enough information to act.
Adults don’t need perfect knowledge. They need sufficient knowledge and the willingness to stand behind a choice. You don’t need to be right forever. You just need to be right long enough to move.
And if you aren’t? You correct course. Quietly. Without drama. Without announcing a failure.
That’s how real life has always worked.
The modern world sells the illusion that you can stay uncommitted indefinitely and still move forward. You can’t. You can only drift.
Drifting feels gentle, but it erodes direction. Over time, people lose trust in their own judgment—not because they made bad decisions, but because they stopped making any at all.
If there’s a thread running through most dissatisfaction today, it’s this: too much consideration, not enough conclusion.
So here’s the reminder, plain and unromantic:
You are allowed to decide.
You are allowed to stop evaluating.
You are allowed to say yes or no.
You are allowed to choose something and live with it for a while.
That doesn’t make you rigid.
It makes you real.
Clarity isn’t found by waiting.
It’s forged by acting, observing, and adjusting.
Close a loop today.
Finish something.
Make a call.
The world won’t collapse if you’re imperfect.
But it will quietly shrink if you never commit to anything at all.
And that shrinking—slow, subtle, and polite—is what most people mistake for normal now.
It doesn’t have to be.
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